Giving compliments is a skill everyone should have. After all, everyone likes to hear them. Compliments make people feel good about themselves, and we all need that at times. Hotel guests and staff are no exceptions. Guests may give hotel staff compliments for the quality of their service, for their English ability, for their appearance in an unique uniform, or for doing something a little extra for the guest.

A hotel staff may give a guest a compliment about how they look in a newly purchased outfit, or for their patience when a problem arises, or for a beautiful new hair style after visiting a beauty parlor.

Expressions- Giving Compliments

Giving complements Responses to compliments
That’s a very nice …(dress). How kind of you to say so.
Great job on the …(presentation). I’m glad you like it.
You look very good in … (that new hair-do). That’s very kind of you.
This dish is delicious, my compliments to the chef. It was nothing really.
That … (tie) looks great on you. Thank you.

Dialogue

Staff: What a beautiful dress, Ms. Elliot.
Guest: Thanks, I’m glad you like it.

Staff: Your new hair-do looks absolutely gorgeous, Mrs. Simpson.
Guest: How kind of you to say so.

Guest: My compliments to the chef. This linguine is superb.
Staff: Thank you ma’am. I’ll be sure to let the chef know.

Guest: Your English is very good.
Staff: Thank you very much.

Staff: Excellent game Mr. Johnson. You really gave me a workout.
Guest: Thanks, I guess all those private lessons are finally paying off.

Guest: I really appreciate all the extra work you did on helping us solve that problem. It
truly went above and beyond. My compliments to your work ethic.
Staff: Thank you sir, how kind of you to say so.






Practice Conversation Activities- Giving Compliments

1. Paired Conversation

Compliment your partner about the following items, using the expressions for giving compliments. Your partner should respond appropriately, but with humility.

A new dress or shirt
A new hair cut
A nose job
A meal they just cook
Their handling of a rude guest

2. Group Activity- Compliments, Appropriate Responses

One student makes a typical compliment that a guest or staff may receive. Other students give a response. The teacher decides which student gave the best response based on language, grammar use, and pronunciation. The person with the best response gets a point. The student with the most points wins. Have the students give several compliments.

3. Group Activity- Compliments, A Skit

Divide the class into groups of 2 or 3. Students work together to develop a skit that is grammatically correct about guests complimenting staff for something. Staff should be very humble, but the guests should continue to lavish compliments on the staff. Once the skit is developed, students present it to the teacher and the rest of class. The teacher judges the skit based on language, grammar use, originality, and acting ability. Be creative and have fun!

4. Discussion- Compliments

Have a discussion about the things that staff could compliment their guests on. Do they ever compliment guests? Give an description of one compliment given. Do they mean it or are they just being polite? How often do they compliment guests? Does complimenting guest lead to bigger tips? The group could also discuss compliments they get from guests. What are they for? Give a specific instance. What would they like to be complimented for, but aren’t. Do their supervisors compliment their work? How often? What for?

5. Whole Class Activity- First To Know

Put the list of compliments (in bold) on the board. The teacher reads the response. Students listen to the response and decide what the compliment is. The first student who identifies the compliment races to the board and circles the complaint and puts their initials in the circle. The student with the most initials wins.

New Tie
Thanks, My kids bought it for me for Father’s Day. It really does go great with this shirt.

Spaghetti Dinner
That was delicious. The tomatoes used in the sauce must have been very fresh, right off the vine.

Hair Cut
Thank you. It cost me a small fortune, but I think well worth it. The new Italian stylist at the beauty salon
downtown really knows hair.

Painting
Thanks, I’m glad you like it. It took about three weeks to complete. It seemed to take forever to get the
colors blended just right and the brush strokes perfect.

Nose Job
Thanks, I like it too. I think it completely changes the whole look of my face. It was worth all the pain and
suffering.

Use of a foreign language
I really appreciate that. I have studied for the last 10 years, but I think I still I have a way to go to be fluent.

T-bone Steak
I’m glad you liked it. The secret is to first sauté thinly sliced garlic and onions in olive oil and butter and then
marinate the meat in the sauce at least two hours before cooking.

New Coat
Thanks a lot. It’s made from genuine leather and lined with rabbit fur. It’s incredibly warm.

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